Saturday, February 21, 2009

When You Listen To Others

Have you ever listened to others especially your friends and they tell you this is the decision you need to make instead of listening to your own heart and soul? Instead of listening to your own heart did you find you could have messed up big time? Sometimes in life we tend to let others make our own decisions instead of looking within and making our own. We get scared and that is when we do not listen to our own heart an we let others depict our life. Do not do that. If you have a gut feeling about something or your heart is telling you something always go with you instinct. It is ok to let others help you but always make the final decision.
It is your life and yes your decision may not always be right but at least you know it came from your heart and not someone eleses opinion. Live your life the way you would like and yes always have an open ear but remember when it comes down to the final decision it is your call. When you make that final decision also remember whatever choice you make there maybe consequences you may have to face. Keep your head held high and plugging away!

Sunday, February 15, 2009

Breaking The Pattern

Have you ever been so set in your ways that you just continue to do things the same way because that is all you know? We are all guilty of it. Yes our past creates who we are but do we ever step back and think why things do not change in our life's? Have you ever asked the question why are my relationships failing? why do I act the way why I do? why?why?why? Do you ever stop and think maybe things could change if you can break the pattern and look deep within yourself and see what changes need to be made within you. Instead of blaming others for your issues start taking responsibility for your own actions and make changes if you feel changes are needed.
Break the pattern that binds you and keeps you from growing. You never know what you are going to miss if you just do not give it a chance. We have a whole life ahead of us so let's live this life without regrets and start breaking the patterns!
'Never allow someone to be your Priority, While allowing yourself to be their Option'